1. Relationship Overview
- Relationship status and length
- Cohabitation, marriage date, and children
- Parenting arrangements and living situation
- History of separations or reconciliations
- Main reason for seeking help
- Each partner's top three goals
Scope of the assessment
Everything included in your $450 per-couple assessment.
Five structured sections, two private questionnaires, and a licensed-clinician review. Below is the full scope — nothing about your relationship is skimmed.
2. Relationship History
- How you met and early strengths
- Milestones, stressors, and prior counseling
- Trust breaches and repair attempts
- Financial, parenting, and family-of-origin influences
- Cultural, spiritual, health, grief, employment, legal, military, and caregiving stressors
3. Private Individual Questionnaire
- Satisfaction, emotional safety, and trust
- Communication, affection, and shared values
- Commitment, conflict style, and feeling heard
- Resentment, withdrawal, criticism, defensiveness, and contempt
- Finances, parenting, substance use and mental health concerns
- Stress, coping, readiness to change, and desired outcomes
4. Conflict-Pattern Analysis
- Pursue-withdraw and criticism-defensiveness cycles
- Escalation, avoidance, and unresolved topics
- Repair attempts and triggers
- Beginning, middle, and end of arguments; recovery time
- Text, phone, and in-person conflict; child exposure
- Strengths observed during conflict
5. Strictly Private Safety Screening
- Fear, threats, and physical or sexual violence
- Stalking, property destruction, and weapons
- Strangulation and coercive control
- Self-harm and harm-to-others concerns
- Child-safety and forced financial dependence
- Never disclosed to the other partner
Your written report
A professional clinician-approved report — delivered to your secure portal.
Client identifiers and referral question
Goals, methods, and relationship history
Individual-perspective summaries
Strengths and conflict patterns
Agreement and perception differences
Clinical concerns and safety considerations
Recommendations and level/format of care
Initial goals, frequency, and duration
Referrals, limitations, and clinician signature
No diagnosis is included unless entered and approved manually by a licensed clinician. Reports are drafts until reviewed and released by the clinician.
See the process end-to-end.